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Post by zoar on Feb 19, 2010 22:38:35 GMT -5
Bills premarital sex with Margene and Anna just cost him his wives in the celestial kingdom where he will not be going. The opening sequence all makes sense now.
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Post by marionj2 on Feb 19, 2010 22:50:56 GMT -5
So, zoar, is premarital sex an irredeemable sin? Or can he come back from it?
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Post by JJ77 on Feb 20, 2010 3:02:20 GMT -5
You know, you would think that a poly family perk would be that the man doesnt "cheat" - with mutiple wives to choose from, and the unending potential for adding new wives ... it seems to me every excuse for fooling around (atleast any from the husband) would be moot. Including " I was tested and I failed" ...
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Post by BigLoveRocks! on Feb 20, 2010 4:40:37 GMT -5
Yeah, I wonder if Margene or Nikki said "I was tested, and I failed" regarding a simple kiss, would have sufficed for Bill the way he expects his explanation to suffice for Barb?
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Post by miceelf on Feb 20, 2010 11:11:26 GMT -5
Yeah, I wonder if Margene or Nikki said "I was tested, and I failed" regarding a simple kiss, would have sufficed for Bill the way he expects his explanation to suffice for Barb? Excellent point. Margie and Nicki just KISSED the guys, nothing more happened, but they were both punished extensively. Bill actually had sex with Margie and Ana, and he got off with no time in the penalty box? I think Margie and Nicki's punishments had to do with a lot more than sex. Nicki was working as a spy for her father, using Margie's identity to work there, lying to the family about what she was doing, when she happened to fall for her boss. And Margie...well, Ben is her step-son. And worse, she admitted that the kiss was real, she meant it. So no matter how many times they reassure Bill that it's over, they don't really have feelings for each other, Bill will never be able to completely trust them, he will always wonder...
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Post by miceelf on Feb 20, 2010 11:28:32 GMT -5
The whole notion of witholding sex as a means of punishment cracks me up. lol Especially in the case of bill and his 3 wives... I mean what are the chances the wives would actually unite on somethign against bill? More likely,they'd agree & then one or all of them would "secretly" still be giving it up to set themseves apart. Another excellent point! This is why monogamous people don't usually withhold sex to "punish" their partner, at least not for an extended time...because then they are punishing themselves, too LOL If Bill decides to cut one of his wives off for a while because she was a bad girl, no problem for him, he has two other wives to pick up the slack (as Margie let Nicki know). They are all having doubts or questioning bill on some level personally, but they're not voicing those things to each other. It's like each one thinks if they voice these questions to the other "faithful" wives they'll be shunnned or something. What they need to do IMO is come together and come out with it already- maybe then they'd realize there is some validity tot he things they're feeling and they'd feel stronger to address those issues with bill as united front. You are right, all three are having doubts and questioning Bill -- for different reasons, though, so I wonder if they would really listen and understand each other and not judge each other if they got together on it?
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Post by zoar on Feb 20, 2010 22:16:30 GMT -5
So, zoar, is premarital sex an irredeemable sin? Or can he come back from it? marionj2; He could but it would not be easy. He has already got two strikes against him. Mormon beliefs teach the following. “Thou shalt not commit adultery; and he that committeth adultery and repenteth not shall be cast out; but he that has committed adultery and repents with all his heart, and forsaketh it, and doeth it no more, thou shalt forgive; but if he doeth it again, he shall not be forgiven, but shall be cast out. “ Bill should have come clean with Margene but now he has also been with Anna and she is pregnant with his child. Let’s face it Bill has really screwed up big time.
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Post by BigLoveRocks! on Feb 20, 2010 22:18:25 GMT -5
So, zoar, is premarital sex an irredeemable sin? Or can he come back from it? marionj2; He could but it would not be easy. He has already got two strikes against him. Mormon beliefs teach the following. “Thou shalt not commit adultery; and he that committeth adultery and repenteth not shall be cast out; but he that has committed adultery and repents with all his heart, and forsaketh it, and doeth it no more, thou shalt forgive; but if he doeth it again, he shall not be forgiven, but shall be cast out. “ Bill should have come clean with Margene but now he has also been with Anna and she is pregnant with his child. Let’s face it Bill has really screwed up big time. Maybe this explains last season when Bill fell out of the hayloft and was staring into outer darkness... He was familiarizing himself with where he is really going?
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Post by kambria on Feb 21, 2010 5:31:01 GMT -5
i was kidding about the whole withholding sex thing. i guess i should have made that more clear
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Post by biglovelove on Feb 22, 2010 14:45:04 GMT -5
Speaking of the big house - that was quite the diversion wasn't it. I too hope that doesn't get him off the hook.
I can't see how it would though as I get the impression the wives all like having their own households. I can't imagine the 3 of them living under one roof. That is too much like the compound.
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