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Post by BigLoveRocks! on Mar 21, 2010 17:44:24 GMT -5
Calling another poster a cold hearted bitch is never in good humor. That is NOT what I said. Not at all. If you hadn't deleted the post you could go look and see that I did not call anybody anything. ... but oh well... whatever. Wurks... Whether you tell someone to go to "coldheartedbitch.com" and bring back her friends, or you say "You're a cold hearted bitch" the thought behind it is the same. Period! Just because you hide behind a passive aggressive facade, doesn't make you any less offensive. You went too far. Period!
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Post by JJ77 on Mar 22, 2010 1:18:00 GMT -5
On more than one ocassion I've shown excessive amounts of patience where wurks is concerned.
I didnt want my personal opinions / disagreements with him to sway my handling of his posts in general. I was attempting to be fair. In an effort to those means though,I think maybe I was bit lax where he was concerned. At the very least I feel I've been more than fair.
Thanks for editing the post BLR.
Wurks - should you decide to register please read the "rules and guidelines" before posting again, as you will be held to them.
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Post by firstwife on Mar 22, 2010 13:16:01 GMT -5
Back to topic... If I were Barb, I would find myself spending a lot more time in the sweatlodge with Tommy I'd tell Bill that I was the best thing that ever happened to him and if he didn't shape up I'd be out the door. I'd stop putting up with Nikki's deceptions and Margene's immaturity. Either they become equals in all ways or they are out the door.
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Post by rissmeek on Mar 22, 2010 16:02:31 GMT -5
Back to topic... If I were Barb, I would find myself spending a lot more time in the sweatlodge with Tommy I'd tell Bill that I was the best thing that ever happened to him and if he didn't shape up I'd be out the door. I'd stop putting up with Nikki's deceptions and Margene's immaturity. Either they become equals in all ways or they are out the door. Ok Firstwife now you have me thinking. Do you really think Barb wants Nikki and Margene as equals?
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Post by firstwife on Mar 22, 2010 16:47:06 GMT -5
Good question. I guess she could enjoy feeling superior to both of them. But on the other hand, that means the bulk of responsibility/sanity gets put on her. That would get tiring after awhile. I think that was why she was drawn to Anna- someone who was her emotional and mental equal.
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Post by JJ77 on Mar 22, 2010 19:36:35 GMT -5
I think barb likes feeling a little superior to nicki and margene. Maybe not in an "i'm better than you" way , but I definitely think she likes being the one "in charge"; her whole chain of command works for her because she's 2nd in rank. (bill being first)
Even with Anna she was quick to point out that there was a certain way "things are done".
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Post by rissmeek on Mar 22, 2010 20:41:46 GMT -5
I think I lean more towards JJ's answer. I think Barb likes being in charge, even though it is threatening her sanity. It was, until she realized in the last episode that it really wasn't, the only power she has. Now that she realizes she doesn't "need" Bill, this may change.
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Post by BigLoveRocks! on Mar 22, 2010 21:18:31 GMT -5
Barb is almost like a mother to both Nikki and Marge, as if they are her own daughters rather than sisters.
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Post by mottob27 on Mar 23, 2010 11:52:36 GMT -5
If I were Barb, I would convince Sarah and Scott to have kids and buy a house with an inlaw suite so that I could live with them and help raise their kids.
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Post by ladykc on Mar 25, 2010 21:01:31 GMT -5
If I were Barb, I'd dump Bill and go spend some time alone. I'd try to decide if I wanted to become Mainstream LDS again or not. If yes, then I'd go back to church and find some LDS guy to marry. If not, I'd run right to the sweat lodge with Tommy!
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Post by withay on Apr 7, 2010 0:17:45 GMT -5
If I were Barb, I would convince Sarah and Scott to have kids and buy a house with an inlaw suite so that I could live with them and help raise their kids. And if I was Sarah or Scott, I would definitely NOT do that! Having a live-in mother who is used to being first wife would not be the way to start a marriage but might be a way to end one!
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Post by liz3564 on Apr 7, 2010 22:17:36 GMT -5
If I were Barb, I'd dump Bill and go spend some time alone. I'd try to decide if I wanted to become Mainstream LDS again or not. If yes, then I'd go back to church and find some LDS guy to marry. If not, I'd run right to the sweat lodge with Tommy! If I were her, and if I had already made the decision to leave Bill, I would run to the sweat lodge with Tommy and repent later. Even if she decides to go mainstream LDS, she is still excommunicated. What's the harm in being a sinner a little while longer? She may as well enjoy Tommy's sexy bod in the interim.
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Post by BigLoveRocks! on Apr 7, 2010 22:48:42 GMT -5
If I were Barb, I'd dump Bill and go spend some time alone. I'd try to decide if I wanted to become Mainstream LDS again or not. If yes, then I'd go back to church and find some LDS guy to marry. If not, I'd run right to the sweat lodge with Tommy! If I were her, and if I had already made the decision to leave Bill, I would run to the sweat lodge with Tommy and repent later. Even if she decides to go mainstream LDS, she is still excommunicated. What's the harm in being a sinner a little while longer? She may as well enjoy Tommy's sexy bod in the interim. I agree!!!!
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